Answering Anonymous Angel #2

Is somebody gonna match my freak? Asking for a friend, literally...

Dear Elise,

A question for you my dear married friend…. I’ve been dating a very sweet, thoughtful, kind man for 7 weeks. Although the dates and messages have been enjoyable, I am not crushing hard. I’m in two minds about continuing to see him and are mulling over some incompatibilities. For more context, I’m looking for a relationship and I was talking to my therapist the idea of falling in love vs growing in love. What are your thoughts on a slow burn in dating? Does there need to be an initial flame?

Pls share your wisdom. 

xoxo